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Swing Party And Gangbang Etiquette

    This is a subject I have been meaning to write about for a long time.  The article is pretty long but all of the information here is important so please read it all!  Thanks, Sinclair


THE TYPE OF EVENTS WE HOST

    Parties:  Most of our parties are hosted in our home.  Please treat our home with respect by not setting drinks on the antiques or dropping and leaving condoms on the floor.  We realize that during a party the house is going to get a little messy but keep the two before mentioned things in mind.  
    Almost all of our parties are just that, swing parties.  For those who are not sure what a party is, it's a social gathering.  Normally we socialize for about 1 to 3 hours before we actually get down to swinging fun.  During that time we eat, have a few drinks, talk or what ever.  If you don't want to attend the actual party feel free to show up late.  Of course keep in mind that if the other swingers don't know you or have not yet met you they may not be willing to let you join in on the sex.  That is just how it is.  We have also had guys show up late and the actual swinging is already over.  (I can't help you there.)  If you show up late, don't expect a girl who had already showered, cleaned up and changed into comfy clothes to "take care of you".
    During a party we typically have a few couples here and some single guys.  The swinging will occur in a few rooms of our home.  The sex is neither staged nor planned.  It just happens when it happens.  It is important for you to be social at the parties.  Being a wall flower does not add to the party atmosphere at all.  Get involved, meet the others and have fun.  Keep in mind that you are entitled to approach any of the attendees about swinging but you have to respect their answer no matter what it may be.

    Gangbangs:  Gangbangs are a little bit different from a party.  During a gangbang the honored lady usually shows up first.  We ask that all of the guys show up on time.  Normally we socialize for a short amount of time and then either "I" will ask the lady if she is ready or she will will tell me when she is ready to get started.  As a male model, you do not determine when she will start the gangbang.  Most girls are willing to fuck everyone at a gangbang so that is very seldom an issue.  Here are a few do's and don'ts for attending a gangbang.  

Don't be a pussy hog.  The girl is there for everyone so share.
Don't just drop your clothes where you are standing.  We video tape our gangbangs so that means that a camera man will be walking around.  I have seen countless pagers and cell phone stepped on and though none have been broken yet, it's only a matter of time.  Take a few seconds to gather up your clothes and toss them out of the way or in a chair.
THIS ONE IS VERY IMPORT ANT  Don't try to "hold out" too long.    A gangbang is about a girl getting fucked by a lot of guys and getting a lot of cum shot on her.  You can go back for seconds if you have already cum once.  I am aware of a few guys who kept trying to hold out during a gangbang and once the girl got tired the guy was left holding an aching hard on.  I'm not going to take care of it for you.  If you are one of those guys that boasts "I can last for ever" a gangbang may not be for you.
Don't expect her to get you hard.  Quite often we do have "fluffers" but you can't expect a girl who is getting fucked from both ends to take time to get you up if you are experiencing difficulty.  If you are having difficulty, step back, enjoy the scene, relax and then jump back in once  you are hard.
Don't be homophobic.  If you are going to be participating in the double penetration of girl, guess what, you will be touching another guy.  There is no way one girl can fuck a room full of guys without the guys occasionally touching each other.
Don't step in front of the camera man.  Two guys fucking one girl and then 7 guys standing around her watching does not make for an interesting video.

Do have fun.  The whole event of a gangbang is about having fun.  The girl gets to be with a lot of guys and you get to fuck a fun lady.
Do bring condoms and lube.  Though we typically supply lube, it eventually gets sat on the floor and lost in the maze of clothes piled on the floor.  If you have your own lube you will know right where it is.  Condoms, some girls require them some don't.  We don't typically supply condoms so be sure to have your own with you.
Do give us a camera angle.  We know it is difficult to give a good camera angle all of the time but if we can't see the fucking we can't use the footage.  Though this may not seem important to you while you are fucking let me offer this, guys that give us good camera angles get invited back and often, those that don't, don't. 
Do come back for seconds.  If you have already cum once but you get it up and can cum again, feel free to step up to the plate for seconds.
Do respect the lady.  If she say's no anal, don't think you can slip it in without her knowing.

    Specialty and Concept Parties:  We do host a few specialty events and concept parties throughout the year.  Typically we don't post these events on the website.  If you are invited to attend one of these events we will tell you what the theme or concept is before we shoot it.


HYGIENE

    Well I can't believe that I am even going to have to cover this one but here we go.  We have seldom had a problem with hygiene but I do want to give you a few things to think about for the ladies and the men.

    Men:  If you don't have a beard, shave your face.  Stubble is not comfortable on a woman's delicate parts.  And as Kandi say's, "Shaved balls get licked a lot more often that hairy ones."  Though it is not required, shaving or at least trimming your pubic hair below your cock is recommended.  Be showered and clean paying special attention to your genital area!  If you are coming straight from work or the gym you can feel free to use our shower but don't show up smelly and sweaty and expect the ladies to swoon over you.  Dress as though you were going on a date.  A neat appearance always impresses women more than a slob.  Though I am not asking you to become a metrosexual, take care of your hands.  Use some lotion, clean and trim your fingernails.  Women don't want to get scratched by a guys long finger nails or rough hands.

    Ladies:  Though this has never been a problem because the women typically always show up clean and ready for fun, I do have a couple of suggestions.  Dress at least a little conservative when you arrive.  We pretty much live in a quiet little neighborhood and though most of our neighbors know what we do, I don't want to throw it in their face when we host a party.  I say this because we had a model actually cross our lawn in lingerie' and heels while our neighbors were grilling out across the street!  Bring comfortable clothes for the trip home.  Most of the ladies are pretty tired after one of our parties, so feel free to bring a comfortable outfit to change into after the party.  For ladies that shave we have a few suggestions.  Shave the actual day of the party, not the night or two before.  Men's razors tend to actually shave closer and smoother than a ladies razor.  Men's razors and replacement blades are cheaper too.  Shaving cream works better than just using soap.  Again, men's shaving cream is cheaper than women's.  After you shave use a small amount of Neosporin on the area that you have shaved.  Leave it on for about an hour so and then wipe it off with a baby wipe.  This will keep you from getting red razor bumps and rash.


WHAT TO BRING

    Quite often we have people ask if they need to bring anything with them.  Typically the answer is no.  We normally supply food, soft drinks, sometimes cheap beer, towels and of course the sex.  Unlike many other companies hosting parties, we don't charge a "door fee" to attend the party.  We do ask that if you want anything to drink, (for example, a particular type of beer) that you bring your own.  If you do drink, don't drink too much because it may hamper your ability to perform.  Also be sure to bring your own condoms because we do not supply them.  You may also want to bring your own bottle of lube.  Though we do supply lube, quite often the bottle ends up getting misplaced.  You may want to also bring "baby wipes".  We do supply wash cloths and towels for cleaning up, a baby wipe will allow you to "freshen up" between different ladies with out having to go to the rest room and rinsing off.


RESPECT

    Respect in general is paramount at our parties.  Since we realize that not everyone is going to meld in a utopian sexual bliss we demand respect.  You don't even have to like everyone at our parties but you must respect them.

    Respect for the ladies is even more paramount!  At our parties take the time to find out what the ladies are into and not into.  If the lady wants you to wear a condom, wear one.  If she does not take facial cum shots, don't cum in her face.  Another issue is talking about other women.  I have had a few ladies tell me that they feel intimidated about their performance when guys sit around discussing how hot and wild some other girl at a different party was.  Of course it is fine to discuss other women but if a woman is getting ready to be gangbanged she may feel a little warmer toward you if you don't go on and on about how hot another woman is and instead make her feel hot.


    Well that is all for now and I appreciate you taking the time to read this.  Keeping the mentioned things in mind will help make our parties a comfortable event for everyone. 

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